Fit at Fifty and enjoying summer swimming in Canada

Getting Healthy & Fit at Fifty

WELLNESS

How I changed my body, my health & my outlook at midlife

There may be affiliate links within this post which provide me with a small commission, at no cost to you. More information at: Privacy & Disclosure.

I’ve had to make many changes in how I care for myself at midlife, and it’s been challenging. But in the process of getting healthy and fit at fifty, I’ve learned that our midlife bodies just need a little extra love and respect.

Why Was My Midlife Body Betraying Me?

Some unwelcome changes began in my mid 40’s: I gained weight around my waist even though I wasn’t eating any differently. I used to be able to have several glasses of wine at a dinner party and then sleep like a baby (sleep like a baby – my favourite ironic expression), but that changed. Now, if I had more than one drink I wouldn’t sleep well.

And I developed a problem with my hip that got so bad I could barely walk. After months of searching for an answer, I learned I had hip dysplasia which had led to arthritis – I needed a total hip replacement. (I write more about that in: My Midlife Health Mystery.)

physical therapy after hip replacement
Physical therapy after my hip replacement

A Hip Replacement at 49

I was 49 and felt like my body had betrayed me. I was frustrated, confused and scared.  I had always been healthy – what was happening?

I had the hip surgery and did the required physical therapy so my hip healed well; I was thrilled to finally be pain-free. But I was terribly out of shape and my balance was off, which was normal, apparently. 

When I was given the green light to begin more exercise I had to approach fitness in a new way. My hip surgeon made it clear that running was out for me. I was never a serious runner, but I enjoyed it – it relieved stress and put me in a positive mindset. Since my artificial hip, and the hip dysplasia on my other side, would not tolerate running or any sort of high-impact exercise, I had no idea where to start.

Being healthy and fit at fifty means being able to do lots of fun activities Susan on a stand-up paddle board

From Hip Replacement to Fit at Fifty

How I Got My Groove Back

I began working with a trainer at my local gym. Alecia was amazing. She helped me to understand the types of exercise that midlife women most benefit from.

My new priorities were to increase my strength by building muscle (we lose muscle as we age) and to improve my flexibility. When it came to cardiovascular exercise, Alecia advised that I only needed 20-30 minutes of cardio, three times a week. Less was more, in this case. 

A personal trainer demonstrates a single leg deadlift, which builds strength and balance
Alecia explained that strength training is essential for midlife women who want to get fit

Strength Training and Functional Movement for Midlife Women

I learned about the importance of functional movement: the things we need to do every day as we go through our lives, like getting in and out of chairs and squatting to pick something up. Alecia showed me how to exercise to support the way I moved: I loved this practical approach to exercise and joked with her that since I love to travel, one of my goals was to have enough upper-body strength to lift my carry-on bag into the overhead compartment  – for the next 40 years!

After six months of the new fitness plan, with less overall cardio, I was in better shape than I had ever been. I worked hard: My exercise routine took about 1.5 hours and I did it four times a week. But that is not necessary to vastly improve how you look and feel. What began as a negative – hip surgery and not being able to run – has made me stronger and healthier than ever.  (NOTE: I’ve asked Alecia to create a fitness plan that I can share with readers. I will link it here as soon as I have it, so watch for that in the spring of 2021). Or sign up for my newsletter and I will share it with you as soon as I have it.

Join my newsletter for more  Midlife Inspiration

.
Susan on a hike in the Grand Teton mountains of Wyoming
Hiking supports my mental health, and helped me get fit and stay that way

To maintain my fitness I now exercise just over an hour, 3-4 times a week. Since I no longer go to a gym, due to Covid, I spend about 30-40 minutes doing strength training, using my own body weight and resistance bands, and another 20-30 minutes riding a spinning bike at home. I did not have the budget for a fancy bike such as a Peloton so I purchased this Joroto Cycling Bike instead. I’ve been using it for almost a year and am very happy with it, so highly recommend! It’s around $400. 

With the right exercise routine now a regular part of my life, I have the energy (and the new hip) which allows me to do the things I love such as hiking and skiing. 

Nutrition

Would I Have to Change the Way I Ate?

I love delicious food. Thin-crust pizza is my favourite thing, perhaps tied only with homemade chocolate chip cookies. I also adore delicious cheese and crusty bread. And breakfast burritos are not only for breakfast, just saying. 

Maintaining my weight has always required regular exercise because yep, I love to eat. My weight had fluctuated over the years with two pregnancies, and available time and energy for the gym. 

A loaf of homemade sourdough bread looks inviting, on a wood cutting board
For me, healthy eating at fifty means my husband's homemade bread is an occasional treat

As I reached midlife I found I could no longer exercise the pounds away when I over-indulged. There’s an expression: you can’t outrun a bad diet. That became very true for me. My diet wasn’t terrible, but there was room for improvement. And if I wanted to fit in to my clothes, I would have to improve it. 

After my hip replacement, I had vowed to take better care of myself and my interest in nutrition grew. The more I learned, the more I saw food in a new way: as a source of energy, as a way to regulate my mood, and as the most significant thing I could do to ensure my long-term health. 

I got a subscription to the Nutrition Action “healthletter”. It is published ten times a year by the Center for Science in the Public Interest (CSPI) a non-profit dedicated to providing science-based advice on nutrition and food safety.  It is a great source of reliable information and helps keep me motivated to eat well.  Harvard University also has a series of free e-publications with useful info.

Reading the Nutrition-Action health Newsletter by the Center For Science in the Public Interest

Figuring out how to change the way I ate required some trial and error. Everybody is different. For me, it meant cutting out most processed carbs (things made with white flour), and adding in more nutrient dense foods, vegetables and healthy fats. 

It is so unfortunate that those of us who grew up in the 80’s and 90’s were taught that fat was bad. Healthy fats are essential to good health and eating them makes me feel full and satisfied. I focus on incorporating healthy fats in my diet every day: olive oil, avocados, nuts and seeds. I have a nut and seed bowl for breakfast every week day (affectionately named the squirrel bowl). Then I eat fun things like huevos rancheros and croissants on weekends.

I had to limit processed carbs and add more veggies and healthy fats

I now believe that good nutrition can change your life. One of my favourite nutrition experts is Dr. Mark Hyman, a medical doctor and best-selling author who likes to say: “Food isn’t like medicine, it is medicine, and it’s our number one tool for creating the vibrant health we deserve.” 

His website is a fantastic resource, and he hosts a health podcast called : The Doctor’s Farmacy. He has also written many books; I am about to read his latest: Food Fix: How to Save Our Health, Our Economy, Our Communities, and Our Planet – One Bite at a Time.

A breakfast bowl of nuts and seeds has fibre, nutrients and healthy fats
I eat a nut and seed bowl with plain yogurt (no added sugar) every weekday

Changing my eating meant I finally lost the pounds that had crept on in my late 40s, and some additional weight as well.  Most importantly, I feel better – I have more energy than I’ve had in years.

Sure, I would love to park myself in front of a giant bowl of pasta vongole. But pasta is now an occasional treat. Unless I am in Italy. In Italy I eat whatever I want – Molto Bene! That’s reason enough to plan a trip to Italy. 

Alcohol, Not an Ideal Midlife Companion

I really enjoy wine and adore fancy cocktails; in summer I love whiskey sours and in winter switch to Manhattans. And champagne, what isn’t better with a glass of bubbly?

So I really hate to say that from what I have learned, many midlife women would benefit from cutting back on alcohol.  It hardly seems fair, but let’s talk about the reasons why. Alcohol is harder to metabolize as we get older, our livers just aren’t as efficient. 

It also disrupts sleep because it’s a short-term sedative, when it wears off, you wake up. And if you are trying to lose weight, alcohol will sabotage your efforts. Alcohol spikes your blood sugar, in the same way a chocolate cupcake does. Even worse, there is a connection between excessive drinking and breast cancer, according to Dr. Hyman.

 

Women toast a friend's 50th birthday on a boat cruise in South Carolina

He says: “Drinking wine is like a U-shaped curve. A little bit is OK; a little more is bad news. For women, wine can be especially damaging. Why? Increased alcohol load means your liver can’t metabolize estrogen well. Increased estrogen in the body can lead to breast cancer.”

I have learned enough about the risks of alcohol that as much as I enjoy it, I have cut back. I will add that it can wreak havoc on your skin. Excess sugar leads to a loss of collagen and skin elasticity. I have very wrinkle-prone skin, so need all the help I can get. 

So I’ve created new rules for myself. I try and limit alcohol to the weekend and keep it to a maximum of two drinks at any time. Sure, sometimes I want a third, but I remind myself I won’t sleep well, so try not to exceed two. Except on vacation. Except on girls trips. Except in Italy. (Apparently all rules are made to be broken in Italy.) I try to relax about everything on vacation. That seems to work for me, I know some people need to maintain consistent habits. 

Sleep for Midlife Women

I know sleep is a fraught topic and we are all well aware it’s important. Most of us would sleep more if we could. I am as guilty as anyone of finding ten things to worry about at 3 AM, sometimes they are even legitimate concerns. Other times, I am awake at 3 AM fretting about the fact that I haven’t been cleaning my dogs teeth with that weird tool the vet told me to order.  

Sleep is so important to our health that it’s worth our efforts to improve it. And if you are trying to get fit at fifty, or any other age, being sleep deprived makes it harder to maintain a healthy weight and can lead to sugar and starch cravings. 

Sleep apps such as HeadSpace have some free content specifically designed to help you return to sleep. I have used it and like it.  Calm is another good option.

Jumping with my family on the beach, feeling healthy after hip replacement
Sleep is a challenge for many midlife women. This is how I feel after a good night's sleep

Even simpler, and a way to avoid your phone at night, is counting backward from 1000 (or 10,000, if you are a math person ;). It may sound overly simple, but counting often works for me; it is enough of a distraction from my thoughts and worries, to fall back to sleep. 

Sleep is a vast and complex issue. The leading expert I have found on sleep, is Matthew Walker who runs the Center for Human Sleep Science at UC Berkeley in San Francisco. His book, Why We Sleep provides a deep dive on this topic and emphasizes how crucial sleep is to optimizing our health. It is a Sunday Times bestseller in the UK, and a New York Times bestseller in the U.S. He also has excellent and informative YouTube videos, for example: How to Improve Your Sleep.

fit at fifty and back in my skinny jeans at the Neon Boneyard museum, in Las Vegas

Healthy and Fit at Fifty: Is all this really worth it?

I look back over this list and think: so many rules, so many restrictions. Who are you? You used to be fun.

Then I think about how I feel now: energized, healthy, happier. And I remind myself that I enjoy the wine and the thin-crust pizza because they are special treats, not coping mechanisms. The splurges bring me joy, rather than leave me feeling guilty and craving more. 

I believe midlife presents an opportunity to make some changes. As women, we all give so much to everyone else. We deserve to feel as good as we can; it is a gift we can give to ourselves. 

I still have bad days, when I make chocolate chip cookies to soothe difficult emotions. And I might have even had a whiskey sour on a Tuesday, just last week. None of us are perfect, and that’s ok. We’ve made it this far and our midlife is a gift to be enjoyed. So I do the best I can, and forgive myself for everything else.

For me, healthy and fit at any age is about more than being able to button up your skinny jeans. It is about vitality and happiness: feeling energized, calm and optimistic about the future. 

More Wellness Tips & Travel Inspiration

Receive the monthly Midlife Globetrotter newsletter with ideas for healthy midlife living, travel for women and more fun!

Subscribe
Share on twitter
Share on linkedin
Share on facebook

4 Responses

  1. Thank you for these words!! I’ve been thinking lately how much food is a drag and I don’t seem to be satisfied and reading this has opened my eyes to what I’ve been on the verge of finding out. That food needs to be more a source of energy and less about comfort.
    I plan on putting some of your thoughts unto action for myself.

    Thank you so much!

    1. Hi Janna. Thank you for sharing some of your own experiences with food. I love what you said, about food as a source of energy. It sounds like you are starting to make some really positive changes. That is wonderful; I wish you all the best. Thanks for reading and taking the time to comment. Susan

  2. I am in need of a bit of a reboot and happened on your blog . Your words resonated with me on a number of levels, so thank you and cheers to improving on what we already have and being our best selves…and buttoning our skinny jeans 😉

    1. Hi Julie. I am so glad the story resonated with you. I couldn’t agree more with your comment: “cheers to improving on what we already have and being our best selves.” Buttoning skinny jeans is just an added bonus 🙂

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Subscribe

FOR UPDATES & MIDLIFE INSPIRATION

.
About - Midlife Globetrotter

Hey there,

I’m glad you’re here. Can we talk about midlife? I reached my late 40’s, realized my kids were growing up, and adventure began calling in a new way: big travel adventures as well as everyday ones. I want Midlife Globetrotter to be a place where we explore how to add a sense of fun, freedom and meaning to these precious years. Let’s celebrate how far we’ve come, and all that’s ahead.

Susan

Subscribe

.
LET'S CONNECT!

More to Explore